How to Restore Emotional Resources in the Early Years of Motherhood
The first three years of motherhood drain something most people can't name until it's gone. You're the regulator for another nervous system. You're th...
Understanding and managing your child's emotional world.
The first three years of motherhood drain something most people can't name until it's gone. You're the regulator for another nervous system. You're th...
Postpartum depression affects roughly 1 in 7 mothers; postpartum anxiety is at least as common and often goes unnamed. If you're in either, recovery i...
The pull to punish a screaming toddler is real — to send them to their room, to threaten lost screen time, to raise your voice over theirs. It feels l...
Your three-year-old wants the bedtime story read in the same sing-song voice, with the same blanket tucked the same way. The morning goodbye at presch...
When people talk about emotional regulation in babies, they often mean the baby's own ability to settle herself. For the first six months, that frame...
A small child rarely says, "I'm anxious about preschool" or "I'm having a hard time since the baby came." She doesn't have the vocabulary, and she doe...
Parenting young children is hard. Some of that hardness is unavoidable. A lot of it isn't — it comes from perfectionism, over-scheduling, and trying t...
A common worry holds parents back from seeking help for a young child: she's too little, she'll grow out of it, real therapy is for older kids. None o...
The stretch from six to twelve months is one of the most emotionally crowded in early development. The relatively simple distress-or-calm spectrum of...
Postpartum depression affects about 1 in 7 mothers, and it can affect fathers and non-birthing partners too. It is not the "baby blues" — the weepy, h...
Most postpartum mental health conversations focus on depression. That focus is necessary, but it leaves a gap: the majority of new mothers don't devel...
Most parents have lived through some version of this: three days of bizarre crankiness, blown-up sleep, refused meals, no obvious cause — and then a t...
By the end of the first year, most parents can describe their baby's "personality" in a sentence or two — the bold one who wriggles toward every stran...
"Are you spoiling her by holding her so much?" New parents hear this from well-meaning relatives and absorb the worry. Developmental science is unusua...
If you've snapped at your toddler over a spilled cup and then felt guilty about it for an hour, you're in the company of basically every parent who ha...
The first year after a baby arrives is one of the most physically and emotionally vulnerable periods in a woman's life. Her body is healing — perineal...
Parents often look for the right thing to say or the right technique to deploy when their child is falling apart. The research keeps pointing somewher...
"How do I teach my child to manage their emotions?" is one of the most common questions parents ask. The developmental science gives an unintuitive an...
There's usually a moment a parent recognizes — sometimes for the first time, sometimes for the tenth — that what they're carrying is bigger than what...
Most parents assume their stress stays inside their own head. It doesn't. By six months, infants reliably show physiological changes in response to a...