Why Comparing Children Makes Problems Worse (US)
When something is hard at daycare — biting, slow language, a friendship that won't take — the most natural move in the world is to look at the other c...
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When something is hard at daycare — biting, slow language, a friendship that won't take — the most natural move in the world is to look at the other c...
When something is hard at daycare — biting, slow language, a friendship that won't take — the most natural move in the world is to look at the other c...
When something is hard at daycare — biting, slow language, a friendship that won't take — the most natural move in the world is to look at the other c...
When we think about child safety, we often imagine preventing falls, securing furniture, or monitoring water temperature. But one of the most powerful...
When a child struggles to play independently, the assumption is often that the child lacks a skill. More often, the environment or adult behaviour is...
Traditional attachment research focused on mother-infant attachment, creating the impression that the father-child relationship was secondary or less...
Some parents worry that showing empathy to their child will spoil them or make them less willing to comply. In reality, empathy is foundational to sec...
Parenting in the early years is perhaps the most consequential work anyone undertakes, and it comes with no training, no performance review, and const...
Most parents, if asked what they want to teach their children, can produce a tidy list: kindness, honesty, hard work, generosity, curiosity, respect....
A father at home with the children isn't unusual any more — roughly one in seven primary caregivers of pre-school children in the UK and US is now the...
The idea of "a family routine" sounds like an enormous project — a color-coded chart, a rigid schedule, a system. In practice, the routines that actua...
If you want your child to grow up generous, telling them "be generous" almost never moves the needle. What does: choosing a charity together every Dec...
Fathers' bonding with their children often receives less attention than mothers', partly because of a persistent cultural assumption that attachment d...
Children sense far more than adults give them credit for—and far less than adults fear they understand. A three-year-old who overhears a tense convers...
Children absorb communication patterns through observation long before they learn them through instruction. A toddler playing quietly in the corner wh...
Emotional development is one of the most important — and often most misunderstood — aspects of early childhood. From a newborn's first cries to a five...
John Gottman's research on emotion coaching identified one of the most consequential parenting approaches of the modern era — and it involves no speci...
A toddler hits their sibling for the third time today. A 4-year-old refuses to put their shoes on, screams when offered help, and screams again when h...
Parenting young children is hard. Some of that hardness is unavoidable. A lot of it isn't — it comes from perfectionism, over-scheduling, and trying t...
Is this tantrum normal? Is this much anxiety a problem? Should I be worried that my 3-year-old hit another kid at the park? Most parents cycle through...