Puzzles and Shape Sorters for Young Children
Shape sorters and puzzles are among the most reliably developmental toys you can put on a shelf — they build spatial reasoning, fine motor control, an...
The importance of play and how to make the most of playtime.
Shape sorters and puzzles are among the most reliably developmental toys you can put on a shelf — they build spatial reasoning, fine motor control, an...
The first time a 2-year-old hugs a sock puppet you're wearing on your hand, you'll see the suspension of disbelief in real time. The puppet is alive t...
A 2-year-old who answers "What did you do at daycare?" with a shrug will often spend ten minutes telling a sock puppet about it. The puppet does the t...
A 2-year-old who can barely string three words together can run a 20-minute pretend hospital. The reason: spoken language is one of the slowest things...
The trick to puppet theater is the barrier. Once the puppeteer is hidden, even the parent waving a sock above a tipped-over table becomes "the bear wh...
A toddler holding a banana to their ear and talking to grandma is doing one of the most cognitively impressive things humans ever do: using one thing...
The first time your toddler tips an empty cup to their mouth and "drinks," something important has clicked: they understand that an action can be perf...
The first time your toddler talks into a wooden block as if it were a phone, they have done something remarkable: they have used one thing to represen...
Most parents who avoid messy play do not avoid it because they doubt the benefit. They avoid it because the cleanup feels disproportionate. That is a...
A pool is one of the few places where a toddler can move against real resistance, work on balance, and feel proud of themselves all in the same 30 min...
A $3 tub of playdough does more for a preschooler's hand strength than most "developmental" toys three times the price. Children pinch, roll, squish,...
The playground is one of the few places where a child can practice the full menu of gross-motor skills — climbing, swinging, sliding, balancing, jumpi...
The playdate going badly in your living room right now is not a sign of a social problem. It is a sign that two small humans with limited regulation s...
A playdate that goes well at 18 months looks suspiciously different from a playdate that goes well at five. The young version is short, low-key, has d...
The "academic readiness" pressure on three- and four-year-olds has gone up sharply in the last twenty years, and the children most affected are not th...
"Get them outside" is sometimes treated as folk wisdom — pleasant but optional. The neuroscience and child-development literature of the last 30 years...
The "quality time" idea has been turned into a guilt-trip about elaborate craft projects, themed dinners, and "intentional parenting." It needn't be....
Painting with a toddler is one of those activities that goes badly when adults try to make it go well. The brown-soup result feels like a failure if y...
The classic toddler scene — two children in the same room, a metre apart, doing similar things, not actually doing them with each other — looks oddly...
The wobbly toddler-with-a-paintbrush scene is largely a problem we invented. Tripod grip is a 3- to 4-year-old skill; expecting it from an 18-month-ol...