Parenting
How Moral Development Begins in Early Childhood
For most of the twentieth century, infants were thought to be moral blank slates — driven by need, indifferent to others, gradually socialised into mo...
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Parenting
How to Model Kindness in Everyday Life
A fairly common parental delusion is that kindness can be taught through lectures. The Bandura research suggests otherwise: children replicate what th...
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Parenting
Mixed Parenting Styles as a Normal Reality
Parenting books talk about styles as if a parent picks one and applies it like wallpaper. Most actual parents are warmer at bedtime than at the superm...
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Parenting
Mindful Weaning Without Guilt
Weaning conversations get loaded with two competing wellness scripts: "extended breastfeeding is sacred" and "you should be done by now and reclaim yo...
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Parenting
Minimalism in a Family With a Young Child
The aesthetic version of minimalism — the white house, the natural-wood toys arranged like a Vogue shoot — is largely irrelevant to the actual point....
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Why Mistakes Are Part of the Parenting Process
There is a version of modern parenting culture that treats every mistake as evidence of damage being done. The yelling, the impatient sigh, the snack-...
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Parenting
Mindful Parenting as a Modern Parenting Style
"Mindful parenting" has become one of those terms that means whatever the speaker wants it to mean. The clinical version, developed by Susan Bögels an...
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Parenting
Micro-Breaks for Parents: Restoring Energy in Minutes
The standard parenting advice is to "take time for yourself," which is approximately as useful as telling someone with a fractured rib to "take a deep...
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Parenting
How to Be Mentally Present With Your Child
"Mental presence" sounds like a yoga concept and is really a measurable thing — Tronick has been measuring it for half a century, Adrian Ward has been...
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Parenting
Why Maternal Anxiety Is Common
At 3am, with a newborn finally asleep on your chest, you have a sudden vivid image of dropping her down the stairs. You did not want the image. You ar...
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Parenting
Maternal Affirmations Without Pressure or Toxic Positivity
The Instagram-grade maternal affirmation ("I am a goddess of nourishment, my body is a sacred temple, every moment with my child is divine") has done...
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Parenting
Managing Sibling Conflict in Young Children
The 4-year-old has just shoved the 2-year-old off the sofa over a single specific Duplo brick out of a bin of three hundred. You are about to issue a...
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Parenting
How to Manage Your Own Anger as a Parent
A 4-year-old has just emptied a kilo of porridge oats into the dog's water bowl, looked you in the eye, and laughed. The volume of rage available to a...
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Parenting
How to Maintain Stability During Family Transitions
Children are not actually fragile in the face of change. They are fragile in the face of *layered* change — the move plus the new school plus the pare...
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How to Maintain Intimacy After the Birth of a Child
There is a script most couples are handed about post-baby intimacy that goes "schedule a date night, drink a small wine, light a candle." This advice...
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Parenting
Why Some Parents Feel a Loss of Identity
There is a particular sentence parents whisper, often guiltily, often around month five or eight: "I love my child and I have no idea who I am anymore...
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What to Do If You Lose Your Temper With Your Child
There is a very specific kind of shame that arrives the moment after you have shouted at a 3-year-old. The flush, the stomach drop, the urge to either...
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Parenting
Parenting as Lifelong Learning
Parenting doesn't stay the same. The skills you develop for an infant don't work for a toddler. Strategies effective with a preschooler fail with a sc...
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How to Set Limits Without Punishment
"No-punishment parenting" gets a bad rap, mostly from people picturing a 4-year-old running the household while a glassy-eyed parent narrates feelings...
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Parenting
How Life Changes After the Birth of a Child
The arrival of a first child is a monumental life event that ripples through every aspect of your existence. Yet while pregnancy is discussed at lengt...
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