How to Maintain Routines During Holidays and Travel
Holiday gatherings and family travel inevitably disrupt the routines your child has grown accustomed to. Rather than viewing this as a failure of your...
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Holiday gatherings and family travel inevitably disrupt the routines your child has grown accustomed to. Rather than viewing this as a failure of your...
By 5 p.m., you have made roughly 200 small decisions today: when to feed the baby, what to wear, which sippy cup, whether the meltdown over the blue s...
A toddler who watches their mother make tea the same way every morning before anyone else is awake is absorbing more than the smell of bergamot. They...
Children are not actually fragile in the face of change. They are fragile in the face of *layered* change — the move plus the new school plus the pare...
Housing instability—moving frequently, homelessness, unsafe housing—affects young children deeply. They need a stable place to sleep, a sense of home,...
A child who has moved four times before kindergarten is doing something different with their nervous system than a child who has slept in the same bed...
The same family-routines research that benefits any household (Spagnola & Fiese, 2007; the broader Fiese family-rituals work) shows up even more stron...
Single parenting is partly a logistics problem. There's no one upstairs you can hand the baby to while you make the call. There's no second adult cove...
"Rules" sounds like a stiff word for a household with a toddler in it. But families function on rules whether or not they're stated — and when they're...
Parents often look for the right thing to say or the right technique to deploy when their child is falling apart. The research keeps pointing somewher...
You've probably seen this firsthand. On the days you're stretched thin, your three-year-old falls apart over the wrong colored cup. On a calmer Saturd...
A schedule that varies day-to-day keeps a young child's nervous system in partial alert mode. They're not just dealing with the new environment; they'...
A two-year-old can tell you, with conviction, that the duck pond is "this way" and the green slide is "the right one". When the duck pond is drained f...